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Teen CenterDear kitten friend, I promise you this is the last time I will comment on the subject unless I am asked a certain question. But I’d like to remind ever person out there that a youth center is not the adult’s idea, but rather the idea of the young. It is an idea that has been proposed by a group of teenagers that have done nothing but help this community for three years. It has been proposed not by a bunch of old men on a panel but rather by the very people that will utilize it's rooms. The teens that proposed this have fought hard to put on other successful events such as battle of the bands, dodge ball tournaments, halo tournaments etc... These kids know how to appeal to their friends; they are in the trenches everyday. Where do the adults get the fortitude to say what the teenagers want and don't want when they have never asked one themselves? Why is it when the youth council (a city ran organization) came and asked for money from city council for the first battle of the bands, were we denied? We have always been told to "form a group, be productive, help the community, fight for what is right etc..." but when we ask for help, when the teenagers ask for the support of the adults, the adults just turn the other way and say "IT WONT WORK", "NO ONE WILL COME", "IT WILL ONLY CAUSE MORE PROBLEMS" and my favorite "TEENS DON'T WONT THIS". Well I have news for you IT WILL WORK, it has worked through other events we have put on and in other cities. People will come because they are asking for it, plus the city can use the facility for other rec events. AND TEENS DO WANT THIS just ask them if they are bored, I am a teen, these are teens proposing the center, teens are the ones struggling against nay sayers to make this work. THEY DO WANT IT... When we first started the Youth Council everyone said that it would go down in flames just like the one before it did. But we figured out that if you let teenagers set their own agenda, plan their own events, select their own community projects with little or no adult help it can be successful. As I said before these guys have done so much to help the community and have done NOTHING for themselves. Some may say things like the Battle of the Bands benefited the Youth Council but in all reality the Youth Council is the one having to staff it. Look at every successful event, look at every community project, look at all these guys have done successfully with little or no adult help. They were big players in making the golf cart driving age 15, big players in bringing the minor league basketball team here, they put on an annual Halloween party for elementary kids, and the list just keeps going.... I am willing to bet the majority of us haven’t done this much stuff in a life time let alone three years, and the best part was all of this was the teens own ideas. Now be an adult and listen to the young adults when they ask you to support something they support themselves. They want a youth center for this community, and they can't do it with out our help.... Thank you email------Shelbybarker@gmail.com Shelby Barker's blog | login to post comments |