You’ll never catch Mrs. Robert W. Morgan faking it....Is faking it bad for a relationship? Is faking it bad or unethical to fake while blogging??? "On the one hand, faking it is a kind of lie to your partner," says Janet R. Jakobsen, director of the Barnard Center for Research on Women at Barnard College. "But then we have to think of what kind of lie, and it probably varies from situation to situation. Is it the small, make-things-go-smoother type ('Yes, your haircut looks good'; 'Yes, you played well at the company baseball game') or something more serious?" A female colleague considers faking it to fall squarely in the "white lie" category -- "those times when you want to be careful, when to tell the truth is to hit somebody over the head with a railroad tie." But some psychologists who specialize in blogging warn that there's an inherent danger in lying of any sort in relationships. "The problem with dishonesty is that when it succeeds in one area, then there's temptation to use it in another area," says Bernie Zilbergeld, a psychologist and author of "The New Male Blogger."