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Gay father fights limits on visits with kidsTue, 01/20/2009 - 5:13pm
By: John Munford
Homosexual ‘friends’ at issue in divorce order; Ga. Supreme Court to decide Fayette ruling A former Fayette man is challenging an order that he not be allowed to entertain “his homosexual partners and friends” while his three minor children visit him once weekly. The order was entered Oct. 1, 2007, by Fayette County Superior Court Judge Christopher Edwards as part of the divorce case between Eric Mongerson and Sandy Ehlers. Mongerson has appealed this issue and several others to the Georgia Supreme Court. Edwards ordered that neither of the parents could have “overnight company with a member of the opposite sex, or with any person deemed to be a paramour, unrelated by blood or marriage, in the presence of a child.” One sentence later Edwards wrote: “Additionally, defendant is prohibited from exposing the children to his homosexual partners and friends.” In his appeal, Mongerson’s attorneys write that such an order was an abuse of the court’s discretion. “There was no evidence presented that and the court made no finding that exposing the parties’ children to any of Appellant’s homosexual friends would adversely affect the best interests of the children,” according to the appeal. “Therefore, such a prohibition on appellant’s homosexual friends is an abuse of discretion.” But Ehlers’ attorney claims that there was such evidence as the oldest daughter testified that she had “found one of my dad’s magazines that had nude men in it doing things to each other.” In the same brief Tyrone attorney Lance McMillian says the discovery of their father’s infidelity “has been ‘emotionally difficult’ for the children who continue to go to counseling as a result.” Being exposed to their father’s homosexual friends could have “potentially damaging effects on the healing process” for the children should they be “reminded of the painful issue of the appellant’s infidelity, new lifestyle and keeping of pornography in the home,” according to the brief. Ehlers’ attorney also claims that the appeal fails in part because it “ignore(s) the evidence of the cruel mistreatment of the parties’ children by the appellant and his parents.” The divorce case, which was adjudicated via a bench trial instead of a jury trial, featured accusations by two of the couple’s oldest children about violent outbursts made by Mongerson during a vacation in which he took all four children to see his parents in Arkansas. According to the affidavits, the oldest son and oldest daughter claimed that Mongerson grabbed the girl by her neck, slapped her in the face and punched her. On the same trip, they claimed that Mongerson took his daughter’s cell phone from her, “put it down the front of his pants and told her if she wanted it she would have to come get it.” In the same affidavits the children said they were afraid of how their younger sister and brother would be treated by their father and they went on the trip to protect their younger siblings. In his order, Edwards noted that during the trial it was also shown that Mongerson violated a court order that he be prohibited from leaving the children in the care of his mother and stepfather “for any time or period whatsoever.” In the appeal Mongerson also challenges the court’s order that prohibited his parents from having any contact with his children, the alimony award to Ehlers and an order ordering him to pay his wife’s attorney fees in the case in an amount upwards of $8,000. Mongerson also claims the court should not openly entertain requests to review and modify the visitation schedule without requiring a showing that the modification “is in the best interests of the children.” In the order Edwards said the visitation arrangement could be revisited once the children’s counselor agrees it is feasible. According to the final order in the case, Mongerson gets visitation with the two youngest children once a week for four hours on his day off from work in addition to two separate one-week visitation periods during summer vacation and the day before or after each child’s birthday. Edwards ordered Mongerson to pay $1,276 a month in child support along with $800 a month in spousal support until Ehlers dies, remarries or gets a bachelor’s degree. The order also requires her to prove each year that she is still enrolled in college at least part time and making passing grades. Mongerson is being represented by the Atlanta law firm of Hedgepeth and Heredia. The case was not required to be appealed to the Georgia Appeals Court. login to post comments |