A great family – it can be yours!

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“Our family’s great! I like my family!”

By far the greatest asset existent here in our Fayette community is simply “the family”... including your family. Of all the assets and resources among us, when one studies and analyzes our demographics and community dynamics, it’s “the family” that rises to the top of both the benefit and priority list. And like any other “greatest asset,” of course, we need and want to protect and improve it. We must.

That’s part of our job as churches. I know we here at Prince of Peace are passionately and intentionally “dedicated, determined, and dependable” when it comes to protecting and improving the quality and benefits of family life. As are all our great area churches.

What about your family? Do you want to “protect and improve” your family? Of course you do. Do you need to work on protecting and improving your family? Of course you do. Do you want and need some help at protecting and improving your family? Of course you do. We all do.

Is it a big mystery? How we protect and improve our families? You might think so. But, really, it’s not. As we begin our New Year, this is the start of a simple list of how we here at Prince of Peace “resolve” to “live out” our on-going protection and improvement of our families.

As families we will gladly give ourselves to these purposes. We will:

• Dedicate ourselves to worship. There is no greater strength and power for family fulfillment than to worship God together as a normal weekly family function and tradition. “No-questions-asked. No excuses.” If you make one decision to go all year, it’s much easier than having to make 52 decisions for the year!

Nothing — no amusement park trip, no vacation, no camping trip, no sport, no other family activity, no matter how good — nothing can come close to giving your family what this can give you. Be together in God’s loving and forgiving presence, letting children see parents’ faith, and parents see children’s faith. This is a gift and blessing. Not a “should.”

• Develop ourselves spiritually. Your spiritual growth is key to all your other development — physical, mental, academic, athletic, musical — whatever! Without a spiritual base and understanding, you’ll not reach your full potential in any of these.

What are your “family values”? Do you know them? Do you share them with one another in your own family? Do you talk about them and discuss them around your kitchen table? Do you pray together as a family? Do you read Bible stories together and talk about their relevance for your lives today? What happens in tough times? Times of tragedy and loss? What happens when grandma or grandpa dies? Can you deal with your loss and move on together as a family? How do you understand your world and your life? Where can you get help to do all this? Right here at Prince of Peace! Right in your own church! Or a church you can find nearby!

• Do for others. “It’s not about you.” Rick Warren says it in The Purpose-Driven Life. Any great coach says it. Any competent family therapist says it. And, guess what? God says it. The greatest thing you can give your family is to go together and do something for someone else! Something they couldn’t do for themselves. That will make you a great family instantly.

Dad, raking Mrs. Cupcake’s leaves right next to your children will teach them more about you and your life and your wish for their lives than bringing home a new video game for them to sit by themselves and play hours and hours.

Mom, gathering (dragging at first!) your teenagers together to bake cookies for Mr. McGillacuddy will soon become one of the “best days of your teens’ lives”. Just ask them. They’ll tell you. It may shock and astound you, but that’s what they’ll say. “Our family rakes old ladies’ yards and makes cookies for old lonely men,” they’ll say. “Our family’s great! I like my family!” Would that “protect and improve your family”, or what?

A great family – it can be yours! Let us help! Every church will! Your family is a great asset to our community! Part of our job is to help you protect and improve your marvelous resource. Come see us!

Kollmeyer is Pastor of Prince of Peace Lutheran Church on Hwy. 314 in Fayetteville, between Lowe’s and The Pavilion. He invites anyone without a church right now, or anyone “seeking to improve and protect your family” to come to Sunday worship at 9:15 (Contemporary), or 11:15 (Pipe Organ). Classes for ALL are offered at 10:20. For more information log on at www.princeofpeacefayette.com or call 770-461-3403.

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Main Stream's picture
Submitted by Main Stream on Wed, 01/07/2009 - 8:05am.

...searching for a church right now and we were all wondering what your definition of "family" is before they decided to attend your church? They're a very loving Christian family who are raising a wonderful child, however, this couple is gay. We were wondering if you and your congregation see them as a "family" too, or just some social oddity damned to queer hellfire? If they attended your church together as a "family", would you and your congregation welcome them or try to "cure" them of their lifestyle? Would they be treated as equals at your church, loved and accepted or would some in your pews look down their noses at my friends. Would they feel respected or rejected?

Are they a family too?

We were all just wondering...


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Submitted by The Wedge on Wed, 01/07/2009 - 3:05pm.

to see if this was a true inquiry for a "loving Christian family" or a troll. Are you really going to email this pastor or Cyclist because of true concern, or is this an attempted "gotcha" moment?

It so much feels like a gotcha moment to me, but I am such a cynic.


Submitted by USArmybrat on Wed, 01/07/2009 - 7:43pm.

Main is our No. 1 Cynic of all things Christian! Not that she hasn't has reason many times. Blessed Be, Main.

Main Stream's picture
Submitted by Main Stream on Thu, 01/08/2009 - 11:52am.

"Main is our No. 1 Cynic of all things Christian!

I'm deeply honored by your statement! Thanks Eye-wink


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Submitted by The Wedge on Thu, 01/08/2009 - 1:24pm.

If you are deeply honored by that statement, then why in the world do you want to direct a family to a Christian church? Is this a confirmation of the original troll posting? Methinkst yes.

The nice thing for you about modern churches is that some believe that the Bible is the inspired word of God and others believe in a ala carte selection of Christian teachings, humanistic teachings, and other secular elements. You can have a large range of thought and opinion to mock.

As a great writer once wrote for one of her characters to say "There is, I believe, in every disposition a tendency to some particular evil — a natural defect, which not even the best education can overcome."

Good day to you. I chose not to "bite" you as you have previously suggested. Not a very appealing suggestion.


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Submitted by Main Stream on Thu, 01/08/2009 - 2:49pm.

"If you are deeply honored by that statement, then why in the world do you want to direct a family to a Christian church?"

Because THEY are Christian, and that is THEIR preference for a church - not my own personal choice, since I'm not a Christian - 'nuff said, really, regarding that issue...

"You can have a large range of thought and opinion to mock."

What am I mocking? My original post was to ask a question of a local Pastor if my gay friends would be welcomed or rejected in his church... a fair question I believe. I really didn't think he would answer me, which he hasn't, but maybe it has provided him, and the other Pastor's-Preacher's-Priest's-Reverend's-Rabbi's in our little community, some food-for-thought in regards to what actually DEFINES a family.

Another question, this one for the gay community of Fayette County. Where do the OPENLY gay couples and families worship in our community? Which church? Is there a liberal church in Fayette County? Coweta? S. Fulton/Fairburn? Can you be open about your gay-ness at the church, or is there a sense of "don't ask, don't tell" at your church?

still wondering....

Wedge... quotes for you:

"We must respect the other fellow's religion, but only in the sense and to the extent that we respect his theory that his wife is beautiful and his children smart." - H.L. Mencken

"Religion consists in a set of things which the average man thinks he believes and wishes he was certain." - Mark Twain


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Submitted by The Wedge on Thu, 01/08/2009 - 3:18pm.

I have seen you operate on these boards... you like to operate in a mocking way at times. Look to your icon.

Every church should make you feel welcome regardless of circustance and within reason (Don't show up naked and expect to be welcomed). The response to a given situation depends upon the teachings and interpretation of the church. A good Church should also hold its members and itself accountable to sin. Also if a church addresses homosexuality as a sin, then I would hope that they would address other sins equally, such as adultery, fornication, theft, etc.

In any case good luck to your friends. May they find what they seek.


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Submitted by gratefuldoc on Wed, 01/07/2009 - 1:54pm.

Hey Main~long time...hope you and the fam. had a wonderful holiday and new year. I can tell you that Pastor Kollmeyer is awesome and Prince of Peace is great.....and you know me! lol My wife attends and I know severalmembers who are just really good folks. Remember, this is "fette" county, so you're always up against that no matter where you go...but, for the most part I have found the members there to be pretty tolerant and welcoming....they let me in their doors w/o tryin' to change/save me. My two cents for what it's worth.

"Picture a bright blue ball
Just spinning, spinning free
Dizzy with eternity
Paint it with a skin of sky
Brush in some clouds and sea
Call it home for you and me
A peaceful place or so it looks from space
A closer look reveals the human race
Full of hope, full of grace, is the human face
But afraid, we may lay our home to waste"

"once in a while you can get shown the light in the strangest of places if you look at it right"

"listen to the thunder shouting, "I AM, I AM, I AM"

;>} Have a grateful day ;>}


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Submitted by Main Stream on Wed, 01/07/2009 - 5:25pm.

for your posts...
and Wedge - bite me!

I'll let me friends know what you both said and leave it up to them to attend, or not. I was trying to get them to attend my UUCA church but the drive is too much for them (60 mile round trip Sunday mornings).

I'm still curious though, what the good Pastor thinks of gays and their children/families and if they are looked at as an "abomination" amongst the other attendees in the congregation. My friend, and his boyfriend, just had the baby this past spring with the help of a gay female friend, who was the surrogate.


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Submitted by Cyclist on Wed, 01/07/2009 - 5:43pm.

I'm still curious though, what the good Pastor thinks of gays....

Here is my favorite quote from Pastor "God loves you and so did I".
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Submitted by Cyclist on Wed, 01/07/2009 - 1:17pm.

Are they a family too?

I can answer that for pastor. The answer is, yes. If you perfer, send me an e-mail.
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