Abortion is not the answer, Adoption is the answer

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I know this video is from China, let's stop killing the unborn and give a family a child to cherish. This is so touching,, makes me want to go and adopt them all.

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Submitted by BPR on Thu, 05/08/2008 - 2:16am.

My comment was people who are having a baby, don't kill the baby. Being pregnant was one the most happiest times in my life.

I did have trouble conceiving. Being married 11 years and seeing doctor after doctor finally I found a compassionate one that understood. God blessed me with my son, I thank God that He gave the doctor wisdom to know what to do.

My point is there are so many couple in our situation that can't and won't ever conceive. Instead of aborting the baby give it life. Give it to the person that will cherish it. That is a gift to that baby.

I do agree people are not responsible, if you don't want a baby make sure that you do the right thing to prevent it. I see so many parents in public who could care less about their child. I want to say hey, if you don't enjoy and want that baby give it to me.

I do teach my son about the dangers of catching a disease, about having a baby that he will support for the rest of his life. I even went so far to say, you will support the baby, I will help the girl make you, you will be a Dad. He did ask me if the girl did not want the baby, I told him you will go to school, I will help take care of the baby, you will work to support the baby, when you are at home you will take care of the baby, not me. I explained that is my grandchild, part of you and part of me and your Dad.

I know they have problems with adopting babies in China, which they have more girls to adopt, they want boys. Who cares about a boy or a girl, I wanted a healthy baby, even if the baby wasn't I would still want the baby.

If you are pregnant now or in the future give the baby life, and give it to someone that will cherish it. Choose life.

We were going to adopt and start the process the time I found out I was having a baby. I do wish I had adopted one, the process is long and costly, it's worth it.

Please remember all the women who want to be a Mom this Mother's day and pray for God's comfort to them. I remember being in church every Sunday on Mother's Day, tears streaming wanting a baby.

Our pastor one Sunday, said God had let him know to change his sermon one Mother's Day, I had already had a baby. The sermon was about women wanting a baby. That was touching.

Being a parent and trying to do it the right way is the hardest thing I have ever done, it is a huge responsibility.

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Submitted by skyspy on Wed, 05/07/2008 - 6:48pm.

That is the problem! That is why channel 5 has the Wednsdays Child program. They keep advertising kids. The sad thing is no one wants them.

Birthcontrol and mandatory sterialization is the only answer. Before anyone even collects one welfare check they should be sterialized.

Birthcontrol it is the only way. Geeezzz, one pill a day, it's not that hard to figure out. Come on people, we are running out of clean water and air, and most of you are not up to the task of being parents.

Submitted by Sick of Fascists on Wed, 05/07/2008 - 9:38pm.

So no second chance at all? Some folks actually just need a helping hand for a few months, and then get back on their feet...should we steralize them also? And what about the man who impregnated said welfare recipient?

And is this all part of your great conservative "keep the guvment out of my life" plan? Seems a little tad big brotherish to me.

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Submitted by Git Real on Wed, 05/07/2008 - 7:02pm.

Hey Sky,

As an adoptive parent who has counseled and encouraged others that want to adopt let me say this: The biggest obstacle in the adoption process is the cumbersome and ultra expensive process involved in the adoption process.

Whatever happened to those implants they claimed they could put in a woman's arm and it would prevent her from conceiving? I'd support a gumament program that tied welfare benefits or outright payments to the drug addicted and / or welfare dependent brood moms. Give her $3000 dollars and that injected time release doo-hicky that I thought lasted for 4 -7 years. Then pay her again. It's a bargain for the taxpayers and the brood mom whose main priority is getting bred purely for the pleasurable aspects of the act.

Sure beats the murderous acts of ripping an uborn baby apart piece by piece or burning it to death.

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Submitted by skyspy on Wed, 05/07/2008 - 7:10pm.

I know you have adopted and so has Hack. Also my best friend k-4yrs of college has adopted.

It just seems like there are not enough of you good people around. I don't have the patience for kids. So I have been smart and not taken on a responsibilty I can't handle. I am in awe of you and Hack and my lifelong friend.

Good Job to all of you!! We need more of you.

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Submitted by NUK_1 on Wed, 05/07/2008 - 8:30pm.

As an adopted child myself, it is appreciated:) Worked out great for me.


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Submitted by hutch866 on Wed, 05/07/2008 - 7:19pm.

It's the people who are hesitant to have kids that make the best parents, they try harder yet instill the discipline all children need.

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Submitted by Git Real on Wed, 05/07/2008 - 7:14pm.

It twas nothing. Really. Hack, your friend, and I are not good people. Just blessed people. Smiling

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Submitted by skyspy on Wed, 05/07/2008 - 7:17pm.

The world is a better place because all of you are in it.

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Submitted by Paul Perkins on Thu, 05/08/2008 - 11:17am.

The world is a better place because all of you are in it.

Double dittos on the above.

As a point of interest, the adoption agencies that I've had experience with in the USA have about 4-5 parents waiting for every child they have available for adoption.

T'would seem that "every child IS a wanted child."

But then if Truth in Advertising were applied to the above Planned Parenthood slogan, it would be restated to:

"Every unwanted child needs to be a dead child"

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Submitted by carbonunit52 on Wed, 05/07/2008 - 6:59pm.

Sterialization as a condition for getting welfare?
One could catch pneumonia from that attitude.

I do agree that prevention is the route that both sides of the issue should take.

No one looks good in a searsucker suit.


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Submitted by Git Real on Wed, 05/07/2008 - 7:10pm.

Than butchering an unborn baby in it's mother's womb? Puzzled

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Submitted by bowser on Thu, 05/08/2008 - 9:25am.

Just curious, did any woman in your extended family ever have an abortion in her teens? Perhaps after a statutory rape or an abusive relationship? Did her parents support or make the decision for her?

If so, may we presume you've shared with her and them your candid and graphic views of the "murder" and "butchery" they committed? That you shun them, spit on them or otherwise openly denigrate them for violating, if not the laws of the nation, your personal morality? That you repudiate anything else they've done in life, since no act could make up for such crimes against humanity?

Must make for some awkward family reunions....

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Submitted by carbonunit52 on Wed, 05/07/2008 - 7:21pm.

and the insinuation was to use it to prevent live births of future welfare recepients. Once again, I advocate prevention as the best solution to all sides of the issue.


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Submitted by Git Real on Wed, 05/07/2008 - 7:32pm.

So which is more "cold"? Sterilization or Abortion?

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Submitted by River on Wed, 05/07/2008 - 9:23pm.

How about mass starvation? Personally, I would greatly prefer sterilization programs to abortion, but the failure to control population WILL result in starvation at some point. You tend to refer to liberals as "bleeding-heart liberals" but all this talk about the rights of an unborn embryo is kind of silly when we are contemplating global starvation due to overpopulation. Millions of people starving to death is far worse than the evils of abortion, in my opinion.

This is a far more tangible threat than global warming, and I'm really skeptical about our collective ability to keep a lid on our population. All this talk about the rights of the unborn will be trumped when most of the world is hungry. Anybody who has studied population biology knows that this is almost inevitable. Git, I don't recall what your background was (business, I think) but anybody who has grown a bacteria culture in a Petri dish or a test tube knows that the population grows until something stops it. Usually, the population will overgrow and then choke on it's own waste products or run out of nutrients and die.

You might think that we are better than a bacteria culture, but sometimes I'm not so sure.


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Submitted by Git Real on Thu, 05/08/2008 - 1:59pm.

See my thoughts below. I was utilizing "choice" as an option to reducing murderous abortions and the so-called unwanted pregnancies. Below is the trial balloon I floated regarding this issue. You know me.... I believe in the dollar as a an arbitrator in certain solutions. Let's cut a deal that both parties are amiable to.

Whatever happened to those implants they claimed they could put in a woman's arm and it would prevent her from conceiving? I'd possibly support a gumament program that tied welfare benefits or outright payments to the drug addicted and / or welfare dependent brood moms. Give her $3000 dollars and apply one of those injected time release doo-hicky thingys that supposedly last for 4 -7 years. Then after those wear out... pay her again for refreshed implant. It's a bargain for the taxpayers and the brood mom whose main priority is getting bred purely for the pleasurable aspects of the act.

Sounds like a gumament program that would yield a hefty return with very positive results in matter of less than a decade.

So please don't misunderstand me..... I would never support forced sterilization at all.

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Submitted by carbonunit52 on Thu, 05/08/2008 - 2:54pm.

The view from my soapbox is limited by my small stature. It was incorrect to insinuate that you were in the forced surgical sterilization camp. It was way past my bedtime when I wrote that.
The issue of the male's role in all of this has been mentioned, and I am a proponent of putting the development of an effective male contraceptive on the front burner and turning it on high. Nothing surgical, strictly medical.


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Submitted by Paul Perkins on Thu, 05/08/2008 - 10:45am.

Over population isn't a problem. The problem is we've bought into 30 years of lies by Planned Parenthood et al.

Currently, a 2.1:1 ratio of children per women is required just to maintain the current population. The USA is running about 1.8 while other countries like Italy are about 1.2. I believe that France is about 1.5.

Central Europe knows it has a developing problem of no middle age work force within the next 10-15 years due to a problem of declining vs. an increasing population.

Margaret Sanger, the founder of Planned Parenthood, did content that the world was over populated in her writings during the 1920s. The problem was that, in her eugenic view, the "overpopulation" consisted of the poor, minorities, and immigrants.

In an article entitled, Is Race Suicide Probable? She wrote "Nature eliminates the weeds, but we turn them into parasites and allow them to reproduce.’ Could any business maintain itself with the burden of such an ‘overhead’? Could any breeder of livestock conduct his enterprise on such a basis? I do not think so

She defined the "weeds" as blacks and poor immigrants. This is what happens to a society when we let the manner or fashion in which we are born (lack of wealth, skin color, circumstances of conception,etc.) determine human worth instead of viewing all human life as having intrinsic worth.

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Submitted by carbonunit52 on Wed, 05/07/2008 - 7:49pm.

one heck of a good question, and I must admit, I do not have an answer. Neither one gets above freezing.


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Submitted by carbonunit52 on Thu, 05/08/2008 - 1:08am.

The abortion procedure you are referring to is by far the most barbaric one their is, and since this thread started with abortion vs adoption, it is the topic, and I would have to say it is the "colder" of the two.
At this time however, forced sterilization is not legal, and abortion is.
I by no means advocate either one. I do not believe that I have the moral authority to force a woman to bear a child, but I will say I believe an abortion should not be done after the first trimester.
The adoption alternative is much more desirable than terminating, but this is where the walk the walk vs talk the talk comes in. Pro-life is actually pro-birth unless they are going to do adoptions or at least support the children after they are born. Without getting into details that everyone has reasons not to like, there are many many children that are not being adopted.
The option of having all parties to the issue putting efforts into preventing the need or desire to have an abortion would reap the most benefits. This is both supporting females who are pregnant, regardless of the reason or their circumstances, and efforts into preventing unwanted pregnancies in the first place, which is the prevention that I was refering to but was not specific enough about.
It really borders on hypocrital to tell a young poor woman not to get an abortion and also to say that you and your child are parasites on society if you do bear this child that has about a zero percent chance of being adopted. Additionally, all of this is assuming healty babies. Do you really want more crack babies, fetal alcohol syndrome babies, oxy-contin babies, heroin addicted babies, etc? In these cases, how about a safe method of terminating a pregnancy in the very early stages as a humane alternative? Calling for forced sterilization is no solution either, obviously.
Then there is the indisputalble fact that some women are going to terminate their pregnancy no matter what. When I was high school, girls would go off somewhere and get back alley abortions, often with the disasterous results. No one wants to see this, and this is why it is a medical issue before it is anything else.
Prevention of the pregnancy in the first place would prevent all of these intractable issues from even existing. Perhaps that is where the resistance to it comes from; take away the problem and no one has anything to fight about.


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Submitted by Paul Perkins on Thu, 05/08/2008 - 11:10am.

. . .but I will say I believe an abortion should not be done after the first trimester.

Just of out of curiosity, why do you believe this? The other side has never satisfactory explained to me what magic happens after the first trimester.

Medical science tells us that no new genetic material is added after conception so I don't think you believe it's a matter of development.

If it's a matter of viability, that keeps dropping as medical practice improves, so are you saying that your humanity (and right to live) is depend upon the the time in history you were conceived? Were the people conceived 50 years less human than a 23 week old premature baby today?

Some doctors believe that we are within 5-7 years of ectogenesis in which case viability could be close to the moment of conception.

At that point, do all the first trimester babies become "human persons"???

If so, what were they (ethically) before?

I have a tough time seeing any logic or consistently in the pro-choice position. I'm hoping you can help me out.


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Submitted by carbonunit52 on Thu, 05/08/2008 - 11:21am.

You have a good understanding of the issues. You don't have any use for my help, and I have no use for an endless argument. I was not proposing policy, just stating an opinion.


Submitted by skyspy on Wed, 05/07/2008 - 7:26pm.

That is what sterilization is ....it is prevention. It is the best way.

Giving out free handouts hasn't worked so well for us. We need to try a new plan.

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Submitted by carbonunit52 on Wed, 05/07/2008 - 7:43pm.

and true, when you give something away for free, you put it's value at nothing. Forced sterilization is a non-issue in this country anyway.


Submitted by skyspy on Wed, 05/07/2008 - 7:05pm.

We need to stop encouraging people to have kids they can neither afford or have the aptitude to raise.

We need to stop encouraging people to be freeloaders.

Submitted by Sick of Fascists on Wed, 05/07/2008 - 9:43pm.

Um, that whole forced sterilization thing is pretty damn communist, boys.

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Submitted by carbonunit52 on Wed, 05/07/2008 - 10:23pm.

It is my sincere hope that this talk of forced sterilization is being mentioned for it's shock value.


Submitted by oldbeachbear on Wed, 05/07/2008 - 4:45pm.

Untill you walk in some woman's shoes you don't know her problems.... why are you going to China to adopt? There are babies here...maybe not what you had in mind, but just the same, they need your love.

The idea of going to China to find a baby makes me think of something that happened to me many years ago. After my divorse, my x cleaned my clock...true, some guys are experts at getting everything you have and some judges, when they see this, are so use to seeing the other way around, look at them as some kind of hero.

Long story short....I was left with my child to raise and nothing else. When you have no money, the only thing I ever knew was to work harder, this involved leaving my child in day care 14 hrs for me to work 12 to pay the bills.

One day I had Jimmy Carter and a bunch going to South America or somewhere to help the poor and build them a house. I blurted out...why don't you help the people at home...I have a leaky roof, etc...they thought I was joking and being younger and pretty they didn't take me serouisly that I was supporting myself and trying very hard at it and failing.

My pleas fell on deaf ears...the point is, some people fall through the cracks, if I had the time to get pregnant, I didn't, there was nothing for me, except my own self. I didn't fall into the welfare groupe cause I worked, didn't fall into any group, except two, me and my son....if I had to chose between him and another baby...it would have been him..but I was too busy working and trying to make a home for him.
You don't know the loney choices, or the kids in this country that just need someone, not to adopt them, but to notice them. You don't need to go to China.

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