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Just who is “Sniffles”?The plagiarizing journalist Jayson Blair? Or Jeffc who claims to be Jeff Carter? "Sniffles5" wrote to Git on Mon., 02/04/2008: You list a bunch of unsavory characters; then you assign them to me and in a state of high dudgeon. The argument borders on a parataxic distortion and seems to be your standard technique against me. How very...Conneresque! ____________________________ On the previous Sat., 02/02/2008, Jeffc wrote to me: First you list a bunch of, at the very least, rude, crude and inappropriate behaviors exhibited by fringe elements in society; then you assign them to me and in a state of high dungeon. The argument borders on a parataxic distortion and seems to be your standard technique against me. ____________________________ I think Jeff means dudgeon I think Jeff means dudgeon [extreme displeasure caused by an insult or slight], not dungeon [a dark, often underground chamber or cell used to confine prisoners]. I also think you and muddle are Parataxic and use high dudgeon! AND you are getting mighty close to home calling some of us people who talk plain! ____________________________ Parataxic distortions describes the tendency to distort the perceptions we have of others, based, not on actual experience with the individual, but from a projected fantasy personality, such as the “perfect match” or “soul mate.” Emotionally significant individuals from the past, i.e., those with whom we have unresolved conflicts, can influence our attitude toward people with whom we are presently interacting. ("You're just like my mother!" is a common distortion.) To reduce anxiety, we tend to pattern our responses to others on previous experiences. This can lead to stereotyping and classification of people in groups, a common human tendency and difficult to avoid. According to "Jeff," I must think that he's my “soul mate” or he's "just like my mother." According to "Sniffles," Git thinks that Snif is his “soul mate” or his mother. Do Git and I need to concoct a fantasy personality for Snif and/or Jeff (won't even mention the $$$$), or do they reveal enough about themselves online for us to make judgments without needing to resort to distortion? Does $Nit have a better vocabulary than Jeff? Coincidence? Fantasy? You be the judge. Denise Conner's blog | login to post comments |