Let’s all be careful about anonymous accusations

Tue, 01/15/2008 - 5:04pm
By: Letters to the ...

I would like to thank Ms. Scales-Johnson for sharing information about recent incidents involving the Fayetteville police and her sons. She obviously put a lot of time and thought into her submittal to The Citizen.

The fact that she recounted not one incident but two in the course of a single holiday season makes the entire situation even more compelling. If this had happened to my children, I would feel as frustrated as she does, and would probably have shed a few bitter tears as I typed.

I would also like to thank Mr. TenBrink for presenting another viewpoint related to these incidents. He set forth several ideas I had not previously considered. Both articles were interesting, factual, and serve as food for thought for everyone in our bustling and diverse community, and I enjoyed reading them.

I was equally saddened, then, when I turned to the Free Speech section and read related comments written by nameless authors. More than one person hid behind a cloak of anonymity as they labeled, defended, chastised, scolded, and jumped to conclusions. Reading their comments made me feel embarrassed and uncomfortable.

The year 2008 promises to be tumultuous. It will be filled with extremism, volatile politics, and Internet hype. This year especially, let’s read to gain an understanding, and not to attach labels of right and wrong.

Let’s take a few extra minutes to walk a mile in another man’s shoes, appreciate someone else’s unique situation, and count a few of our own blessings when we read about personal challenges that we do not share.

Perhaps above all else, when we do take a stand or deem it necessary to judge others, let’s find the courage to sign our names.

Kim Learnard

Peachtree City, Ga.

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Submitted by thebeaver on Wed, 01/16/2008 - 1:01pm.

lied once to us. Why should we care about or believe anything else she has to say?

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Submitted by daisyheadmaisy on Wed, 01/16/2008 - 12:10am.

So you want everyone "not to attach labels of right and wrong"?

Let's see, as a parent, there are definite things we have to teach our children that are right or wrong. It's even more evident with regards to breaking the law - you're either right or wrong. If there is a "gray area" then more times than not that occurs when the law is being bent to accommodate a misinterpretation (this is one reason why attorneys make big bucks) of it.

I'm all for not judging others - I don't, and shouldn't, live in a glass house. I am very thankful my sons haven't experienced the "other side of the law." Hugging it out doesn't work with teenagers and the law. What Ms. Scales-Johnson did by publishing her sons' plight was to open her family up to this type of attention. The tables were turned once the police posted their side of the story. This serves as a reminder to all of us, there are always at least two sides to every story, and until you hear all of them, you really don't have an idea of what really happened.

Submitted by McDonoughDawg on Tue, 01/15/2008 - 6:29pm.

The first letter she wrote to the paper was found to be mainly lies.

Submitted by sageadvice on Wed, 01/16/2008 - 3:52am.

I picture you standing in the road, calling someone in a house out to the road for a fight. Is that the meaning of that?

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Submitted by NUK_1 on Tue, 01/15/2008 - 8:02pm.

You're not being "understanding" or "sympathetic" to her situation. You need to "walk a mile in her shoes" and "look for the best in people." Be "open-minded." PUKE.


Submitted by skyspy on Tue, 01/15/2008 - 5:35pm.

You are assuming that scales-johnson is telling the truth. The fact is through the open records act, we learned one of those "innocent teens" had an outstanding warrant.

I cry too, everytime I see false cries of racism.

Submitted by Scalesbro on Wed, 01/16/2008 - 5:59pm.

I am really tired of seeing your postings a saying that my brother or I have outstanding warrants. Neither of us do. You are posting false information. The friend of my brother that was with us in the first incident had warrants. Not my brother or myself.

Submitted by skyspy on Wed, 01/16/2008 - 7:30pm.

I'm tired of false cries of racism.

I didn't say you had a warrant out....I said one of those "innocent teens". Your friend was with you and he had a warrant for a parole violation, that is according to the police report. Anyone can go to the police station and read it for themselves.

Stop the "poor me" routine everyone is sick to death of false claims of racism.

It will be interesting to see what turns up from the video and audio from the police car. The whole reason cops have to tape every interaction with the public, is because of false claims, just like this.

Submitted by Scalesbro on Wed, 01/16/2008 - 8:30pm.

Please remind me of a moment when someone was performing the "poor me" routine.

As I recall, one's run-in with the police was just published into a local paper for others to read. I don't recall anyone begging for someone to feel sorry for them, or anyone begging for someone to beileve what they are saying.

And I also will be interested in seeing the videoes from these mishaps. So others will see exactly what happened.

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