Approach-avoidance
syndrome affects many Christians
By REV. JOHN HATCHER
Religion Columnist
Many Christians
experience what psychology calls the approach-avoidance conflict. In this
situation, the individual is both attracted and repelled by the same goal.
The same goal has qualities that make the individual want to approach
it and other qualities that make him want to avoid it. The timid man who
wishes to propose to his girl friend fears rejection (the quality he wishes
to avoid) and hopes for acceptance (the quality he wishes to approach).
Hence he is in conflict about a single goal. If you are tempted to eat
a certain food but know from experience that it gives you indigestion,
you experience an approach-avoidance conflict. The conflict looks like
this: as the individual nears the goal, the strength of avoidance increases
more rapidly than that of approach, pushing him from the goal.
Peachtree
City's Aaron Stokes will leave for mission to the Philippines
"Elder
Stokes," his official title and name, will be leaving soon for
a two-year mission to Angeles, Philippines,60 miles north of Manila,
as part of his service to the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints.
Gospel
according to Mayberry featured at First Methodist annual family retreat
Fayetteville
First United Methodist Church members and visitors of all ages are invited
to attend the 6th annual church-wide retreat at Camp Calvin in Hampton
scheduled for Friday and Saturday, Oct. 5 and 6. Focus of the retreat
will be a Bible study entitled "The Gospel According to Mayberry,"
led by the Rev. Betsy Haas.
Favorite
jokes to be featured at Sept. 4 seniors group gathering
"Good Humor
time" will be the theme for the fall kickoff meeting of SPRY (Senior
Citizens Remaining Young), Tuesday, Sept. 5, at 11:30 a.m. in the fellowship
hall of the First Presbyterian Church in Peachtree City.
First
Baptist ladies will offer Bible classes
The ladies at Fayetteville
First Baptist Church will have Bible study classes entitled "Breaking
Free," an 11-week study by Beth Moore, beginning Wednesday, Sept.
5. The cost is $10. A morning session from 9:30-11:30 and an evening
session from 6-7:30 will be offered. Reservations are needed for childcare.
Sign up at the church or call the office, 770-461-8378.
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ASPIRES
autism group to meet at Cornerstone UMC
Parents with autistic
children are invited to a meeting of the Autism Spectrum Parent Information
Resource and Education Service, Inc., Tuesday, Sept. 4, at 6:30 p.m.
at Cornerstone United Methodist Church on Ga. Hwy 154 at Thomas Crossroads
in Sharpsburg. The group will share information obtained at the ASA
Autism Conference in San Diego in July. Guest speakers will be Kathy
Nenov and Teresa Brittain. For more information, call 770-304-9397.
Providence
plans yard sale Sept. 8
Members of Providence
United Methodist Church will have a churchwide yard sale Saturday, Sept.
8, from 8 a.m. until 4 p.m. Donations of furniture, appliances and other
items are welcome. Providence UMC is at 592 Bernhard Rd. in south Fayette
County. For more information, call the church office, 770-719-8800.
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