Mary Ellen Ross Wilder, 68, Sharpsburg, died Sept. 9, 2007. She was born Dec. 31, 1938 in Rockingham, N. C. She was preceded in death by her parents, Fred R. and Nellie W. Ross, and a brother, Kenneth B. Ross. Services were at the Parrott Funeral Home chapel with Rick Witter officiating. Interment was at Mt. Herman Baptist Church Cemetery, Eden, N.C. Survivors include her husband, James H. Wilder, Sharpsburg; sons, James A. and Amy Wilder, Oak Ridge, N. C., Richard R. and Donna Wilder, Florence, S.C., Kelvin G. Wilder, Newnan, and Jeffrey D. and Allison Wilder, Tyrone; daughters, Carol A. Wilder, Luthersville, and Tressie L. and Charles Colehour, Sharpsburg; a brother, Freddie R. Ross, Oklahoma City, Okla.; her twin sister, Rose R. Barber, McLeansville, N.C.; grandchildren, Christopher R. Wilder, Rachel L. Wilder, Seth D. Wilder, Benjamin R. Wilder, Bradley K. Wiley, Corey L. Wiley, James T. Wiley, Isaac R. Wilder, Mary-Margaret E. Wilder, Ashley R. Wilder, and Mason H. Wilder, and grand dog, Madison. Parrott Funeral Home, Fairburn, was in charge.