Wednesday, October 23, 2002
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Wednesday, October 23, 2002 |
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God blesses second (and third) marriages too By JOHN HATCHER This past weekend in San Saba, Texas I officiated at the wedding of my nephew. I would like to share the wedding homily with you (Chris and Vieney have been married before. Now, they are devoted Christians and in fellowship with a loving church in San Saba). The Apostle Paul, in Ephesians 2:8, says, "For by grace you have been saved through faith and that not of yourselves it is the gift of God." With 29 years in the pastoral ministry, I am still dumbfounded again and again by the unrestricted limited of God's grace, love, forgiveness, compassion, and understanding. His grace is greater than all our sin. His love is unconditional. His forgiveness has no qualifications. His compassion heals our secret wounds. And, his understanding seems to be that of one who walks in our very own shoes. So many people go through life bound by fear and missed opportunities (and therefore regret) because they live in light of their own mistakes and failures rather than live in the light of the glorious grace of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Please do not get me wrong. The law still stands. Please permit me a joke that makes me laugh every time, but most people fail to see the humor: Moses comes down from the mountain and tells the children of Israel: "I've got some good news and some bad news. The good news is that I've got God to reduce the number of commandments from ten to seven. The bad news is that 'thou shall not commit adultery' is still one of the seven." The point being is that still in light of the enormous grace of God, he still expects us to live according to his laws. But we still have the choice to live in his grace or in view of our own condemnation and perhaps that of others. Let's say there are two towns. In the town of Grace, the Holy Spirit serves as the one Police Officer; Jesus Christ serves as the one District Attorney; and God the Father serves as Presiding Judge. In the other town of Law, your worst enemy serves as Police Officer; your ex-spouse serves as District Attorney; and the Devil serves as the judge. Now, in which town would you prefer to live? I love officiating at weddings when this is the groom's second or the bride's second or third. Why? Because it gives me opportunity to say without fear of contradiction: God loves you and has a wonderful plan for your lives a plan for prosperity and success, not a plan for calamity. Because of God's great love, you have another chance at love-making and home-making. And it could be the best one yet! That's why we your family gather around you: to demonstrate the love of the Father. We the older generation owe it to the younger generation to demonstrated that there's nothing you can do to get kicked out of the family and that we love you no matter what. We the older generation made our share of mistakes, but because you were children, you didn't grasp what we did). At this time I would like the families of the groom and bride to stand. Chris and Vieney, as you look at the loving faces of your family, we are saying to you: "We are here for you because we love you and believe in you. Also, there is a great cloud of witnesses of your love ones looking over the rafters of heaven." We are all saying, we love you and we believe in you. You are beautiful. You are handsome. The world belongs to your heavenly father. Enjoy it! The Rev.
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